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I honestly and truly cannot understand why anyone would want to be a Christian and were not simply raised one. I was raised by a rapidly losing her faith Catholic mother and a life long Lutheran father; in other words, I wasn't raised in a really religious household lolz. But I went to church for most of my childhood, I attended Sunday school, all up until my parents got new jobs and we simply had no time to go to church anymore. It was at this point that, more so than ever, I began to question my faith. Why? Because I was actually looking at it from afar, from an objective point of view. I couldn't attend church, so I actually read the Bible. I read through it once believing it was all the words of God, and was confused at the content and how the loving God I was raised to know could say and do such, well, non Christian things. Then I read it again, this time not as a Christian practicing good faith by reading the Bible, but as someone assuming this was just a book, not the words of God. The arguments I made up to defend God the first time I read the Bible disappeared. I couldn't defend my faith, and I couldn't bring myself to want to. I started questioning more and more things. Why, for example, was it bad that I couldn't attend church anymore? What was so different about praying at home? Did God just listen harder for people in churches? That wouldn't make sense; the people who really need their prayers answered probably aren't in a church at the moment; more likely a foxhole or a hospital. Why didn't God answer any of my prayers? When I was little I asked for ridiculous (yet awesome) things like psychic powers and ..... (In addition to raised as a Christian I was raised with comic books) I knew why God didn't answer those; they were prayers solely for self satisfaction and utterly unreasonable. But what about everyone else? I didn't want my house to flood, I didn't want to have to move, I didn't want my parents to always be fighting and grow to hate each other. That line of thinking brought me to a rather famous quote;
"Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able?
Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing?
Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing?
Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither willing or evil?
Then why do we call him God?"
Still, even after all that, I was a Christian for two more years. Why? Because I was scared. I was scared my family would hate me for not believing in God, because it was only AFTER I told my immediate family that I found out my mom and brother weren't religious either. (And even that was largely my influence. My older brother was a Christian still after I told him I didn't believe in God. I admit I kinda tried to persuade him otherwise; my brother is a very intelligent person, he had always had his doubts about his fate, but I pointed out my biggest concerns about them and eventually he did his own thinking and is an atheist now. My mom is a deist; when she was kicked out of her Catholic church for being an unwed mother, she converted to being a Lutheran, but when taking a brief questionare she answered "Yes" to a question about children being born without sin. The answer was no, because of the original sin. My mom, being a labor and delivery nurse, refused to accept the idea that a newborn baby had any sins or evil at all.) I was also scared because, guess what, Christianity has this little bit to it about how you burn in Hell for all eternity if you deny God. Even if you were a good person. By a Christian's belief, Ghandi is burning in hell right now.
So, after being loosely raised a Christian, as I was exposed to other sides of the God argument and looked at my faith for what it is, I rejected God and all religions going along with him. My immediate family and my friends (and the internets I suppose) are the only ones who know this; most of my family would disown me in a heartbeat if they knew I was an atheist. I'm not scared of their reactions anymore, I'd just rather avoid unnecessary drama. Plus, I want some inheritance goddammit.
"Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able?
Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing?
Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing?
Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither willing or evil?
Then why do we call him God?"
Still, even after all that, I was a Christian for two more years. Why? Because I was scared. I was scared my family would hate me for not believing in God, because it was only AFTER I told my immediate family that I found out my mom and brother weren't religious either. (And even that was largely my influence. My older brother was a Christian still after I told him I didn't believe in God. I admit I kinda tried to persuade him otherwise; my brother is a very intelligent person, he had always had his doubts about his fate, but I pointed out my biggest concerns about them and eventually he did his own thinking and is an atheist now. My mom is a deist; when she was kicked out of her Catholic church for being an unwed mother, she converted to being a Lutheran, but when taking a brief questionare she answered "Yes" to a question about children being born without sin. The answer was no, because of the original sin. My mom, being a labor and delivery nurse, refused to accept the idea that a newborn baby had any sins or evil at all.) I was also scared because, guess what, Christianity has this little bit to it about how you burn in Hell for all eternity if you deny God. Even if you were a good person. By a Christian's belief, Ghandi is burning in hell right now.
So, after being loosely raised a Christian, as I was exposed to other sides of the God argument and looked at my faith for what it is, I rejected God and all religions going along with him. My immediate family and my friends (and the internets I suppose) are the only ones who know this; most of my family would disown me in a heartbeat if they knew I was an atheist. I'm not scared of their reactions anymore, I'd just rather avoid unnecessary drama. Plus, I want some inheritance goddammit.
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I'd argue that fear has everything to do with religion; to the very reason of its existence. We fear the unknown, nobody wants to die, and everyone wants to believe that after death there's something nice waiting for us. People fear they won't reach that and follow their Holy Book of choosing sometimes word for word. Stone your non virgin wife. Kill the infidels. If your children talk back, beat/kill them depending on the magnitude of it. People are driven by fear, and also driven by religion. I'd say the two overlap a very large percentage of the time. Certainly, politics comes into play, but as I said earlier it's a very useful tool for the public, sometimes used as the justification, or the means to get to the end result.
I don't believe that God created man. I believe man created God out of their fear and ignorance. Not of their stupidity, as Aelph pointed out, they are entirely two different things. But as science makes more discoveries, faith is merely working around them rather than accepting them. (Hence our lovely little "Intelligent Design" theories) At this point I don't think a higher being is even necessary, as Ryke stated, and the farther we advance the more I think we'll be seeing this. We seem to be getting stuck right after we make a discovery, and using God as the answer is something I see as just giving up.
I don't believe that God created man. I believe man created God out of their fear and ignorance. Not of their stupidity, as Aelph pointed out, they are entirely two different things. But as science makes more discoveries, faith is merely working around them rather than accepting them. (Hence our lovely little "Intelligent Design" theories) At this point I don't think a higher being is even necessary, as Ryke stated, and the farther we advance the more I think we'll be seeing this. We seem to be getting stuck right after we make a discovery, and using God as the answer is something I see as just giving up.
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I don't hate Christians, and I don't think they're all unintelligent people. But I do dislike the nature of Christianity. I try to respect other people's opinions, but when someone's belief is that I deserve to suffer for all eternity, I find it hard to maintain a live and let live policy. What I believe is that Christianity is unnecessary and it has had negative effects on humankind. It's had good effects too. I'm glad people can have more faith in living because of it, and work hard to be good people, but when the cost is countless wars over who's God is the right God, shafting aside homosexual's rights just because "it offends our religion", and hundreds of other horrible things, well...I just think the toll price is too high and it simply isn't worth it. You don't need religion to have morals, or to have a desire to live.
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Yes, I am. I'm quoting the exact beliefs the bible outlines in plain view. If they claim to be Christians, they claim to believe these things. It's exactly as jimbob 11 stated; Christianity is not a buffet. You either take the whole damn package or none of it. Do you believe in God but not his teachings? Then be a deist. I'm not saying Christians think Hitler is a great guy and that Gandhi was a bad man. I didn't even mention Hitler. I'm saying that by the teachings of Jesus Christ, Gandhi is in hell for rejecting him as his savior.
tl;dr no, I'm not religious.
