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Quistis88
QUOTE(Elderberry @ Jun 7 2005, 05:15 PM)
- I finally mailed off that little package to Quistis-sama yesterday...I miscalculated and ended up attaching $1.50 extra in stamps, but oh well...:rolleyes:pp *tameiki*

Ahh, I'll be on the lookout for it then. biggrin.gif

QUOTE(Elderberry @ Jun 7 2005, 05:15 PM)
- Uu...my voice has been in terrible condition as of lately...I should stop singing for a while...it's not like people actually bother to comment when they download clips in the Karaoke thread...sleep.gif

Yes, it's a little discouraging sometimes when people download/listen and don't comment. If they hate it, they could at least give some constructive criticism. We don't get enough of that in that thread.

Current Thoughts:

- Watching the news and is surprised that my little hometown was actually on it due to the flood situation. It figures that it has to take a natural disaster for people to notice all these other people out there that aren't living in cities.
- Getting a little worried about that flood. Probably not wise for me to go back to help out or anything. Not that I can, since parts of the highway is submerged.
- Some parts of town are under mandatory evacuation orders. I don't think it was this bad a decade ago . . . here's hoping the rain lets up.
- Brother told me he was moving stuff out of the basement because of the good potential the flood has of reaching our house. I told him to save the gaming consoles first. biggrin.gif
Falling_Man
QUOTE(Elderberry-kun @ Jun 7 2005, 06:15 PM)
- Uu...my voice has been in terrible condition as of lately...I should stop singing for a while...it's not like people actually bother to comment when they download clips in the Karaoke thread...sleep.gif
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I sort of try to do my part, though I still have a folder full of music to go through... eheheh...

QUOTE(Quistis88-sama @ Jun 7 2005, 07:07 PM)
- Brother told me he was moving stuff out of the basement because of the good potential the flood has of reaching our house.  I told him to save the gaming consoles first.  biggrin.gif
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laugh.gif Gettin' your priorities in order, I see...

Thoughts:
- Finished watching the 34 ep. of Bleach that are out. Now I can join the discussion.
- I got to use my laptop all day, as usual, under my mother's nose. My only problem? No internet.
- I had an unexpected appointment at my uncle's place today I thought I'd let everyone know about. What's his occupation? He's a dentist who like to joke while messing around in his patient's mouth. Aside from that, he jokes around most of the time.
- Needles in my skin feel wierd... At least it doesn't hurt now...
- My mother and I went car shopping for her. For some reason, I found this amusing and ironic. Maybe I'm just crazy...
- Should work on those pep-talk PMs before it's too late...
Quistis88
Current Thoughts:

- Called the family to see how they were doing over there with the flood. Apparently, the basement has 12 hours to live if the rain doesn't stop.
- If it keeps up like this, I am worried that the water treatment plant will be overrun, and the town's water supply contaminated. Not a good sign.
- Watched an episode of Law & Order: SVU. Pretty good episode tonight, but the detectives were unusually slow. So slow, in fact, that it even got me a little frustrated. Too bad they can't hear me growling through the TV. laugh.gif
Bling_bling_Angel
CURRENT THOUGHTS:

- Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! I'm finished with my report on the poison mushrooms! YAY!!! laugh.gif

- <== feeling very silly indeed...

- I mailed a package to DM awhile back, and right when I sent it, I found out that I forgot to put in the CD I burned and my letter... dry.gif... reallll smart...
Ailuro
Oh dear. I have to write a letter completely in French to my potential French family. o_o
alchemist x
don't yah hate when that happens
Ailuro
Gah~ I won't even know if I have some part of grammar wrong until it's too late. >< Does anyone here know how to say "I'm sorry that my grammar isn't very good" in French? ^^;
Bling_bling_Angel
QUOTE(Ailuro @ Jun 7 2005, 08:06 PM)
Oh dear. I have to write a letter completely in French to my potential French family. o_o
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Aa? Nan'su you ka? unsure.gif? I juss finished my finals on French II yesterday... XD

QUOTE(alchemist x @ Jun 7 2005, 08:07 PM)
don't yah hate when that happens
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I knwo, right? dry.gif... you juss wish you could kick yourself... XD
telepika
GAH!!! I just finished watching Violinist of Hamelin and it was SO sad!!! It was like the ending for Chrno Crusade!!!

*Listening to happy music to work off the sadness*
Ailuro
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 7 2005, 08:09 PM)
Aa? Nan'su you ka? unsure.gif? I juss finished my finals on French II yesterday... XD
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Do you know if "France" has a "la" in front of it? o.o "La France"? And how do you say "I'm sorry my grammar isn't very good"? XD
Falling_Man
Thought:
- I should be in bed soon. Need to get rid of the bags under my eyes...
- What's with this "will seed indefinitely" status on my torrent for ep. 34 of Bleach? The share ratio is currently at 211%. blink.gif
- *sigh* I wonder when things will be normal...
- Another day at the office with mother. Bleh. I'm going to see if I can get an internet connection this time... Then I could possibly work on my PM's I've been ranting about all the time...
Bling_bling_Angel
Ummm...

"Pardonnez moi... mon francais est tre... dame da na..." XD

*LOLZ* Yeah, I do that alot... I start off French, and end it with Japanese! laugh.gif
xrninja
- blaaargh, my mom woke me up from my battery-recharging pre-cramfest nap. when i wake up from these naps on my own, it means i've slept enough, but since i've been averaging three hours of sleep a night lately, i don't think i would have woken up until tomorrow anyway. mellow.gif at least i got in 4 hours.

- whew, my dad's on his way to Austin right now and will be out of my hair until thursday night.

- preparing myself for what will hopefully be the last cramming or studying i'll EVER have to do for a math class. if i pass Calc, that is. my grade's dangerously teetering on the pass/fail borderline...ohmy.gif
mei_tenshi
My Senior Memory Book is finished. smile.gif

I'm so proud of it, I might even post pictures of it. biggrin.gif

Yeah...I'm crazy.
Bling_bling_Angel
CURRENT THOUGHTS:

- I think I drained myself of tears just about now. My beyotch of a sister found my old diary... tha one where I recorded my first simple kiss with my first boyfriend. It was locked and she used a pair of scissors to open it. Then she let my parents read it during lunchtime. My father was so angry that he didn't talk... my mother, on the other hand, screamed at me like she's never had before. That's not the worst of it either; we have a take two this evening. And you know what else? I may not able to go to college because of this. My mother won't accept the fact that I've repented over it. THAT'S WHY THE BOOK WAS LOCKED. I WAS SUPPOSED TO THROW IT AWAY... BUT EVERYONE KNOWS HOW BUSY I AM, WHICH IS WHY I FORGOT. I was so stupid and I admit that. God, I feel so hurt. I've said sorry to my mom and I did it without trying to justify myself or my mistakes. But she's not gonna listen... I apologized and she doesn't seem to care. I told her over and over again that not a day goes by where I don't ask God for forgiveness for that thing that I did. I was so sorry, even though it was just a nano-second of a kiss. To her, I'm as good as not a virgin anymore. And I don't want to know what my father thinks. My mom says he might just slap me later on. All because of my sister.
mei_tenshi
Aw, Bling! *hugs*

All this over a kiss? I get the impression that they're over-reacting...but how graphic was your description? huh.gif
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:16 AM)
- I think I drained myself of tears just about now. My beyotch of a sister found my old diary... tha one where I recorded my first simple kiss with my first boyfriend. It was locked and she used a pair of scissors to open it. Then she let my parents read it during lunchtime. My father was so angry that he didn't talk... my mother, on the other hand, screamed at me like she's never had before. That's not the worst of it either; we have a take two this evening. And you know what else? I may not able to go to college because of this. My mother won't accept the fact that I've repented over it. THAT'S WHY THE BOOK WAS LOCKED. I WAS SUPPOSED TO THROW IT AWAY... BUT EVERYONE KNOWS HOW BUSY I AM, WHICH IS WHY I FORGOT. I was so stupid and I admit that. God, I feel so hurt. I've said sorry to my mom and I did it without trying to justify myself or my mistakes. But she's not gonna listen... I apologized and she doesn't seem to care. I told her over and over again that not a day goes by where I don't ask God for forgiveness for that thing that I did. I was so sorry, even though it was just a nano-second of a kiss. To her, I'm as good as not a virgin anymore. And I don't want to know what my father thinks. My mom says he might just slap me later on. All because of my sister.

How dare your sister do such a cruel thing? She has no right to go into your personal belongings like that, and even less to share it with other people. You should do it to her if she has a diary or something. I'd say she rightly deserves it.

And your parents are over-reacting if they don't let you go to college for a measly little kiss (did you describe it in vivid detail or something?). You're going to be kissed before/after you're married anyway (assuming you would want to be married), so why does it really matter when? And this must have been how long ago? It's happened already and it's not like they can do a thing about it, so dwelling on it any more hurts both sides. How can they be so irrational?
Bling_bling_Angel
*growls*

My GAWD! It was simple! And I was STUPID! It wasn't making out! He didn't even touch me at the time! He juss leaned over and kissed me on the lips! #$@!

*weeps some more*

Besides, I've regretted it! It was NOT descriptive! I juss said that it was so sweet and I liked it! He didn't touch me! Now my mom says that if he didn't move to California, she bets I'd've let him get me pregnant! First of all, he's NOT like that! Sometimes I think he's actually GAY!

And you know what I told my sister awhile ago? I didn't slap her like I felt like cuz my mom said that'd get me into more trouble... I told her that I found her diary of her being kissed by this one friend of hers. I threw it away to save her from trouble. AND I DON'T CARE IF SHE'S ONLY 8! ;_; CAN'T SHE REMEMBER THAT?!!? And even if she can't, I take care of her more than my parents do! A little gratitude, my God...
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:24 AM)
*growls*

My GAWD! It was simple! And I was STUPID! It wasn't making out! He didn't even touch me at the time! He juss leaned over and kissed me on the lips! #$@!

If I had a daughter and I found out her boyfriend did that to her, I'd say it was sweet, not "OMG WHAT WERE YOU THINKING NO COLLEGE FOR YOU!!!11one".
Ailuro
Wow, does your sister have some undying grudge against you? And why would your parents get so worked up over a simple kiss? o_o It's not like it's a sin. But I'm not your parents, and I don't know their thoughts, so I'm in no position to judge.
Bling_bling_Angel
*shakes head*

For my mom, it disrobes me of my virginity or something... dry.gif... which is stupid. The Catholic Church doesn't teach that; that's her own theory...

I don't know... my sister's just TOO stupid and curious for her own good. God, it HURTS... And it hurts to know that my dad's hurt.

Right now, I just feel so sick, like I've got the fever or something... Somehow, i wish she had just slapped me and be done with it. It's not like I didn't regret it. It's not like I didn't ask God for forgiveness... It's not like I intended to hurt my parents. FOR GOODNESS' SAKE... THE DIARY WAS LOCKED!

I had PLANNED to dispose of that diary... and what did my sister do? Just when my life was falling into place, she had to GO and open it. Apparently, since I was in Manila, she had been rummagin through my room. I was unaware that she would go to such lengths to open the lock. And you know what? She's been keeping it for about 2 weeks or so. Gosh, she could have just handed it over to me. I wouldn't have yelled at her, honest. But no... she had to go and show it to my parents...
Ailuro
It's not a sin to kiss someone! x_X
It sounds so irrational! And ooh.. I feel like slapping your sister at the moment. If my brother ever did that to me I'd tan his hide and hang it on my wall.
Bling_bling_Angel
To my mom, it is... gosh, making out, maybe, but not a SIMPLE NANO-SECOND KISS!
xrninja
that's terrible. i'll admit i was a nosy little sister when i was younger too, but showing it to your parents after opening the lock with a pair of scissors is completely overboard. sorry, but what a brat. and your parents actually taking it and reading it is pretty low too, in my opinion. a kiss isn't going out and having sex...i don't even see a kiss as something worth beating yourself up in your prayers about, much less something that other people should give you grief about. to me, their blatant invasion of your privacy shows that they should be more worried about their own morals, rather than yours.
mei_tenshi
I'm gonna have to go with Quis on your parents being irrational, and with Ailuro on questioning whether your sister has an undying grudge against you. I mean, I'd understand if your diary wasn't locked, and just happened to "flip" open to the part about the kiss (highly unlikely), but to cut it open? That requires some bit of plotting. And you're, what--17? 18? Aren't parents supposed to expect their kids to be doing such activities by this time? And dragging your education in like that...I dunno. I thought parents had a hard enough time getting their kids to want to go to college to know not to jeopardize it.
Bling_bling_Angel
*weeps some more*

I told her that, but she said I was evading my own responsibilities.
Ailuro
Evading your responsibilities? Your parents are threatening to stop you from fulfilling your most important responsibilites!
Bling_bling_Angel
No, I mean as in, when I tell her that I was sorry and that this came up because of my sister, she says I'm dodging the issue by blaming my sister.
mei_tenshi
I'm curious--exactly what responsibilities are they speaking of? I hardly think a mere kiss you had years ago entails any sort of responsibility today. What are you supposed to do now--find that guy and marry him?

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It sounds like they're dodging the non-issue by blaming you for blaming your sister.
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:30 AM)
I had PLANNED to dispose of that diary... and what did my sister do? Just when my life was falling into place, she had to GO and open it. Apparently, since I was in Manila, she had been rummagin through my room. I was unaware that she would go to such lengths to open the lock. And you know what? She's been keeping it for about 2 weeks or so. Gosh, she could have just handed it over to me. I wouldn't have yelled at her, honest. But no... she had to go and show it to my parents...

She's gonna turn into some criminal or something. You should remind your parents of the fact that she deliberately invaded your privacy to get to this information, which she shouldn't have been doing in the first place. Taking others' things is unacceptable. Your parents sound like educated people most of the time, so they should come to the conclusion that your sister's actions are more "sinful" than what you had written in the diary.

QUOTE(xrninja @ Jun 8 2005, 12:36 AM)
and your parents actually taking it and reading it is pretty low too, in my opinion. a kiss isn't going out and having sex...i don't even see a kiss as something worth beating yourself up in your prayers about, much less something that other people should give you grief about. to me, their blatant invasion of your privacy shows that they should be more worried about their own morals, rather than yours.

I completely agree. You did no wrong, and it seems that you are the one being punished for the wrong that your sister did.

Not trying to protect the parents here, but maybe they thought that your sister cared about you and wanted to show them something that might affect you and your well-being, so naturally, they took a look, not knowing beforehand what the contents were. Maybe they meant well, but it's still a bit on the immoral side of things. Did your sister tell them what was in it before she showed it to them?

QUOTE(mei_tenshi @ Jun 8 2005, 12:36 AM)
And you're, what--17? 18? Aren't parents supposed to expect their kids to be doing such activities by this time? And dragging your education in like that...I dunno. I thought parents had a hard enough time getting their kids to want to go to college to know not to jeopardize it.

Heh, that's right. I'm inclined to think that maybe your parents are overworked and are absolutely crazy or something. They should be thankful that you're not a teenage mother or something, and realize that they could be the parents of one of those single mothers instead of you.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:37 AM)
I told her that, but she said I was evading my own responsibilities.

How the heck . . . ?
xrninja
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 7 2005, 11:40 PM)
No, I mean as in, when I tell her that I was sorry and that this came up because of my sister, she says I'm dodging the issue by blaming my sister.
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is your sister not even getting a slap on the wrist for this whole incident? i agree with mei, it sounds like they're doing some dodging too. i think that your sister is deserving of punishment for this, especially if you're getting punished.
Bling_bling_Angel
Yeah, she says I shouldn't kiss anyone other than my husband. And after we're married, at that.

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I spoke to my sister. I didn't scream at her or slap her or push her. I told her to sit down and talk with me. I didn't raise my voice or swear at her, but I started crying midway, as I thought about my dad. I didn't mean to hurt my parents by it, I swear I didnt. I mean, why was it locked in the first place anyhow!?!?!

My God, I said sorry and still she won't listen. I think my dad will be logical and reasonable about this; he's like that. But... *weeps some more*

I told my sister that I had buried my sins, and I had left it there. But no, she had to go and dig it up out of curiosity.
Quistis88
QUOTE(xrninja @ Jun 8 2005, 12:47 AM)
is your sister not even getting a slap on the wrist for this whole incident? i agree with mei, it sounds like they're doing some dodging too. i think that your sister is deserving of punishment for this, especially if you're getting punished.

They might be upset upon attaining this information because, since they view this kiss as a sinful thing, you are setting a bad example for your sister. Maybe you could try to guilt-trip your sister.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:48 AM)
Yeah, she says I shouldn't kiss anyone other than my husband. And after we're married, at that.

Did she do the same thing? If she did, then the request might make a little sense.

Not.
Bling_bling_Angel
Actually, she didn't. She never dated anyone; not that the suitors were lacking.

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I just feel... like... *stops a minute*

And you know what else? My mom's saying it's my fault for writing it down and not disposing of it. *weeps* I was stupid. And I admit that. But she says I'm just crying because I don't want to get punished. My God, if I do something wrong I stick to the consequences. I'm crying because it hurts. And because it's not fair. I've repented, but she doesn't believe it. It hurts. She thinks just because she was such a sinless person, that I should be like that overnight. My God, I'm TRYING. I'm not perfect! I'm TRYING, OKAY?!?! It does NOT happen overnight!
mei_tenshi
I say burn the damn thing. It won't do anything practical, but at least they won't find other material within it to scar you emotionally.

I hope your parents realize that they're alienating you and are on the road to ruining this parent-child relationship. And your sister has some serious re-evaluation to consider.
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:48 AM)
I spoke to my sister. I didn't scream at her or slap her or push her. I told her to sit down and talk with me. I didn't raise my voice or swear at her, but I started crying midway, as I thought about my dad. I didn't mean to hurt my parents by it, I swear I didnt. I mean, why was it locked in the first place anyhow!?!?!

People see locked things as an open invitation . . . an "OPEN ME!!!" invitation.

It's good that you didn't blow up at her. What did the little twat have to say for herself?

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:48 AM)
My God, I said sorry and still she won't listen. I think my dad will be logical and reasonable about this; he's like that. But... *weeps some more*

I still cannot believe that this is happening over the description of one tiny contact of two sets of lips.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:48 AM)
I told my sister that I had buried my sins, and I had left it there. But no, she had to go and dig it up out of curiosity.

Perhaps, optimistically speaking, she wants to learn from your sins without committing them herself. A selfish move, either way.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:53 AM)
Actually, she didn't. She never dated anyone; not that the suitors were lacking.

Just because she did things her way does not mean that you have to do things her way as well. Tell her to get with the times and take a look at how society and societal circumstances have changed.

Unless that will trigger more stubbornness.
Bling_bling_Angel
Burn it? They HAVE IT! They read every single page, trying to find other things to accuse me of!

Quis, the book was locked away in a drawer within my closet, under a pile of clothes.

The little prick said she was just curious.

Yes, that response will trigger more shoutings at me.

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Oh, me and my dad have no problem. Neither have we and my mom for that matter; it's just that whenever she gets mad, she doesn't hold her temper like my dad, she BLOWS up. God, it hurts too much. It's just not fair. And, oh, speaking of which, my mom said, "Don't you talk to me aboutbeing fair! You lied to your father and me!"

WHY DO YOU THINK I WENT TO CONFESSION?!?! WHY DO YOU THINK I ASK FORGIVENESS EVERY NIGHT BEFORE I SLEEP? WHY DID I LOCK IT AWAY? WHY HAVE I TRIED TO BE THE IDEAL DAUGHTER IN EVERYTHING? DOES THAT NOT COUNT? DOES THAT SHOW NO REMORSE ON MY PART?

My GOD, I actually quit talking to my 1st ex. GOsh, you guys can open up my inboxes and see that I have not spoken to him since last year!
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:58 AM)
Burn it? They HAVE IT! They read every single page, trying to find other things to accuse me of!

Hypocrites, the whole lot of them. Trying to get you to be the perfect human being that no one can be while they themselves continue to commit such incredulous acts. Ask them how they would like it if you did the same to them.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:58 AM)
Quis, the book was locked away in a drawer within my closet, under a pile of clothes.

The little prick said she was just curious.

Well, she's at that age . . .

Did she know exactly where it was, or did she stumble upon it?
mei_tenshi
My, they're a bunch of opportunists, aren't they?

I'm not sure how "sin" is defined in your house, but the way I see it, it's pretty hard to be completely sinless. Your mom's human, right? Hasn't she made mistakes? How in the world can she expect you not to make mistakes, too? It's like they're adding salt to an already open wound! They should be grateful that you haven't run away/become impregnated/eloped with someone to Las Vegas!
Bling_bling_Angel
*sighs*

My dad will understand me, of thay I am certain.

But my mom keeps telling me that her mother never told her to behave like that when she was my age, and yet she never did any "lustful" act like that, as she calls it. Whereas, she says that she bombards me with sermons, and I still didn't listen.

HELLO!?!? That's why I said I've repented! I was STUPID. I ADMIT IT. If I had the chance to go back and stop myself from doing it, I WOULD HAVE!

EDIT-

No, my mom was virtually "flawless" when she was my age. She never went through anything I did; her siblings, who like to criticize her because she can be too mean to me, testify to that. They've never lied one bit, and even my grandma knows it.

*cries some more* I said I'm sorry, but she won't listen.
xrninja
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 7 2005, 11:58 PM)
It's just not fair. And, oh, speaking of which, my mom said, "Don't you talk to me aboutbeing fair! You lied to your father and me!"
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that's like saying, "Martha Stewart commited perjury and lied to us, so that means we don't have to give her a fair trial! Let's chop off her fingers and put her through medieval torture!" (let's not, by the way. i like Martha.) i really don't understand your mom's thought process. and what she's doing right now isn't really setting a good example for you and helping you on the road to becoming a perfect human being.
mei_tenshi
I'll be frank with you, Bling--your mom's scary. ph34r.gif

As "flawless" as she may have been at your age, it's clear that she's making some mistakes now, as demonstrated by how she's treating you and this situation.
Bling_bling_Angel
*laughs a bit* Thanks, Ninja...

But yeah. To her, and to me for that matter, if you mess up, you deal with the consequences like a man. Although, right now... it seems WAY beyond proportion.

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*smiles* I know, Mei... which is why I'm considered one of the toughest teens around here, cuz everyone knows how strict she is.
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:58 AM)
Oh, me and my dad have no problem. Neither have we and my mom for that matter; it's just that whenever she gets mad, she doesn't hold her temper like my dad, she BLOWS up. God, it hurts too much. It's just not fair. And, oh, speaking of which, my mom said, "Don't you talk to me aboutbeing fair! You lied to your father and me!"

And they're being fair by not giving you a chance to fully explain yourself? How did you "lie" to them? By saying you've never kissed anyone? It's just a freakin' kiss, and probably much more innocent than they believe it to be.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:58 AM)
WHY DO YOU THINK I WENT TO CONFESSION?!?! WHY DO YOU THINK I ASK FORGIVENESS EVERY NIGHT BEFORE I SLEEP? WHY DID I LOCK IT AWAY? WHY HAVE I TRIED TO BE THE IDEAL DAUGHTER IN EVERYTHING? DOES THAT NOT COUNT? DOES THAT SHOW NO REMORSE ON MY PART?

They might see your actions as a way of making yourself seem better so that if/when they eventually find out about this, they might overlook it in relation to all your other good qualities and habits. They saw it all as a ploy, perhaps. You shouldn't be making up for this with anything because you did not do anything wrong in the eyes of, say, the majority of the world.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 12:58 AM)
My GOD, I actually quit talking to my 1st ex. GOsh, you guys can open up my inboxes and see that I have not spoken to him since last year!

Do they not want you talking to him? What's so bad about talking to ex's? I talk to mine all the time. Your parents should understand that whatever feelings you two may have had, they're over and gone, though they may be worried that your ex might try to do something to you. Or something.

Deal with it like a MAN? You're not even an adult yet by legal standards.

If you hate her forever for what she's doing to you, it is her who will have to deal with the consequence of the bad mother-daughter relationship that develops. We'll see how she likes it then.
Bling_bling_Angel
- Ermm... "lie" as in I did this behind their back... sleep.gif

- Majority isn't always right, to my mom... 9_9 *sigh*

- I've stopped so that there'd be no more interrogations. Wouldn't you?

- I'm not the type to harbor perpetual anger. I've tried, but I lose it after about 4 hours or so... *laughs*

By the way, guys...? I just wanna say thanks for listening to me. I feel like I'd've popped a vessel if I didn't speak with anyone, DM being way asleep now.

Another thing - my mom can't see anything sweet or innocent about it. She's calling him a pervert, when I seriously think that is an injustice. The boy was quite gay; I knew him waaaaaaaaay before I even felt like going out with him. Somehow, I rather feel that he only went out with me so as not to show that he's completely gay. But of course, I treid to explain that, and obviously got nowhere.
Quistis88
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- Ermm... "lie" as in I did this behind their back... sleep.gif

That is far from lying. It's more like withholding the truth. No crime in that.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- Majority isn't always right, to my mom... 9_9 *sigh*

Just because the majority isn't always right doesn't mean that she is.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- I've stopped so that there'd be no more interrogations. Wouldn't you?

Perhaps, but if I feel like I am bring treated unfairly by my parents, I'd let them know for their own good. It is not fair to only base the rules of life upon your own beliefs and disregard those of others. Should she not be more forgiving like your religion encourages people to be?
mei_tenshi
Bling, you indeed are a tough teen, and a good daughter for even trying to be the daughter they want you to be. Anyone else would've simply flipped them off and moved out. If they can't see how sorry you are (for something that's really not that big a deal in the first place) and how much they have hurt you, they'll regret it when they've driven you out of their lives. You're not the one failing as a daughter--they are failing as parents. And though your dad may not be as crazy irrational as your mom, he's still letting this happen to you, and that's not exactly Grade-A behavior, either.
Bling_bling_Angel
QUOTE(Quistis88 @ Jun 8 2005, 12:21 AM)
QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- Ermm... "lie" as in I did this behind their back... sleep.gif

That is far from lying. It's more like withholding the truth. No crime in that.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- Majority isn't always right, to my mom... 9_9 *sigh*

Just because the majority isn't always right doesn't mean that she is.

QUOTE(Bling_bling_Angel @ Jun 8 2005, 01:15 AM)
- I've stopped so that there'd be no more interrogations. Wouldn't you?

Perhaps, but if I feel like I am bring treated unfairly by my parents, I'd let them know for their own good. It is not fair to only base the rules of life upon your own beliefs and disregard those of others. Should she not be more forgiving like your religion encourages people to be?
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- *laughs* There's nothing wrong with keeping your own secrets. It's not like I did something ultra evil...
- Ah, well, she knows she's right. Case closed. mellow.gif
- For her, this isn't a matter of forgiveness, somehow. I don't know what it is.

- God knows how hard I'm trying to be the perfect daughter. I know I've made a helluva lot of a lot of mistakes [nothing police-serious, though, or anything sex-related; drug, booze, etc]... but I do try.

- I don't even want to think about what it would be like if I was an ordinary thing. 1st of all, it'd be bad to because it's being ungrateful... I mean, go ahead and accuse me of being anything, but NO ONE can accuse me of filial ingratitude.
mei_tenshi
Current thoughts:

-Bling's mom is scary.
-Bling's mom is crazy.
-Bling's mom is stubborn to a fault.
-Bling's mom would probably call me evil if she saw what I posted and forbid Bling to have any contact with those "heathen devils" she converses with on the World Wide Web.
Bling_bling_Angel
^ *laughs* Too true.

I just wish... I just wish that I could prove to my dad that I'm not what my mother thinks I am. And oh yeah, by the way - she thinks that I'll be doing worse once I go to uni...

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My sister just came down to the library and she handed me a sorry note that she made. I rally can't find it in my heart to be that much mad at her anymore.
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