QUOTE(The Krazy one @ Nov 20 2005, 03:42 PM) [snapback]317578[/snapback]
Rose's stupidness and Denseness? Rose is not stupid or dense! How would you like it if your boyfriend/girlfriend died tragically right before your eyes? Or what if what you believed in turned out to be fraud? Your spirit would be shattered. Weak and puny? She proved to be very strong in heart especially when she wanted to protect the children of Lior during the Soldier raid. I think you have no right to call her weak and puny.
Winry doesn't understand how Rose would feel. Sure, Winry's parents died but Rose had NOBODY she was always alone. Her whole town is ruined! She was confused and hurt, later you find out that she gets more important and she gets dragged into the most aweful situations.
Winry's troubles is very small compared to Rose's. Also Winry can be extremely self centered and obnoxious sometimes.
I think that is the general argument both for and against Rose; her life has sucked a lot, and she's still putting up with that. Some people believe she should be appreciated and commended for simply living through that, and others just don't want to hear about all the problems she had to go through when they're watchin anime, where everyone is expected to have some sort of quirk or madd skillz in order to be good people. As for Winry, I don't think you should minimalize her problems like that. It's an awful ordeal to lose one's parents, and on top of that, she lost her best friends too. She can easily feel lonely, but she's also incredibly lucky that she was still blessed with a loving grandmother, a home in a safe supportive town, and the intelligence and talent it takes to become a skilled medical worker and mechanic to build an independent life for herself and support her friends.
I can see where as a character, Rose might not surface-wise strike one as a particularly gripping individual. But I'm pretty sure that if you were to visit a war-torn third world country and encounter a young woman who has been through all she has, you wouldn't be so upset about how 'dense' she was and mad about how 'Zomg shes so stoopid for yellin at Ed'. I'm sure if you, Rose haters/ dislikers were to go to a place such as liore and meet a teenage girl who had lost every person she ever held dear, decieved with the promise of hope for a new life and affection from a kind fatherly figure, had her faith stolen, her peaceful homeland ravaged by war, raped and become pregnant and alone in the world, you would more likely want to help her and try to find a way to tell the world her story to illustrate the horrors of war, rather than brush her problems off so lightly. Hers is the kind of story we read in international news magazines and shake our heads, muttering, "how horrible."
But then again, that's an interesting little phenomenon, isn't it? A liked character isn't neccesarily parallel to the kind of person you would like in real life. For a reverse example, I'd give L from death note, personally. (See signature) He's easily one of my favorite manga characters, because I find his odd behavior and monkeyish personality to be funny, cute, and fascinating. However, if I were to encounter soemone like him in real life, I would probably be scared out of my mind. He looks like a psycho otaku, has a creepy stare, and probably smells funny. (That's my theory anyhow

. You can't exactly expect someone who looks and lives like he does to smell like roses, can you?)
I still say Winry over Rose, character favorite wise. Somehow, Winry captured me much more easily, and Rose was an acquired taste, so to speak. Doing serious thinking and writing about her has increased my respect and love for her a lot more, but maybe you shouldn't have to write an essay about a character to see where their likeablity is. I guess I could say that for Ed; I have no idea exactly
what I like about his character; I just do. He fascinated me from the beginning. (IRL, I'd probably kick him in the shins once or twice for whining, then give him a noogie, or something....)