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Fathers:Love him? Or hate him? Close? Or, not close?, Tell us about your dad, and your relashionship with your dad. :)
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post Jul 8 2006, 06:20 PM
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QUOTE(Greeneyes Alchemist @ Jul 8 2006, 05:52 PM) [snapback]419822[/snapback]

I don't really know, cause I don't know anything about him, even though he lives in the same house as me...So I don't know anything not even his job...just the man that lives in my house...

You need to spend less time at the computer and more time with your parents. You won't have as many chances to get to know them after you hit 18.


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post Jul 8 2006, 09:19 PM
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QUOTE(kittygirl @ Jul 8 2006, 06:11 PM) [snapback]419840[/snapback]

Am I the only one who does love my dad?

nah, I love my dad too. Even thought he might have giving us specially my mom a hard time, I still love him, I just don't look at him the same way I used to.


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I can say that I'm proud to have a father like mine. I can talk to him about everything and he's ready to do anything to cheer me up if I'm feeling depressed (don't read: 'He's ready to buy me anything if that can cheer me up'. Not at all, even if I would love to! tongue.gif). He often acts childish, but I don't complain often since it's funny most of the time. We don't really share the same opinion on some subjects, but it sometimes brings up interesting arguments...Huh...Even though we don't really discuss these serious subjects often.

So yeah, I love my dad, and I feel lucky to have him.


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post Jul 9 2006, 06:52 AM
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QUOTE(kittygirl @ Jul 9 2006, 12:11 AM) [snapback]419840[/snapback]

Am I the only one who does love my dad?


There is a slight difference between loving them and liking them. I know someone who loves his dad, even though he doesn't live with him anymore as he was abusive.

My dad just can't communicate. Most of the time we talk a little bit and he is good at buying gifts and such but I have to start conversations. I do love him but he has done some harsh things to me (not petty 'he didn't get me a dolly' sort of harsh), and at those times I didn't like him at all.


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post Jul 9 2006, 07:00 AM
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QUOTE(kittygirl @ Jul 8 2006, 04:11 PM) [snapback]419840[/snapback]

Am I the only one who does love my dad?


Apparently, not everyone's dad is like yours. You sure are lucky.


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post Jul 9 2006, 07:34 AM
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In FMA Ed really hates his father because he left them all. I hate mine for that same reson and much more.
Ed an Al are lucky copared to me. I DIDN'T CHOOSE THIS


I don't remember Ed and Al choosing for Hoho to leave. No one choose their parental situation.

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Am I the only one who does love my dad?


Does it matter? I think Greeny loves her dad even if she doesn't know him...
The thing is people aren't going to post saying they like their dad becasue it's not intresting. We're going to hear a bunch of people comlaining for either legitimet reason or retarded reasons. I bet only 1 in 15 posts will have posotive messages about their dads.

I'm not wineing over stupid over stupid crap like that I pretty much got over it. But its so stuck in my head that its never going to leave. Life sucks and I'm almost broken I can never tell it to someone without them getting the wrong idea.


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QUOTE(BloodLust Wolf @ Jul 9 2006, 10:34 AM) [snapback]420018[/snapback]

I'm not wineing over stupid over stupid crap like that I pretty much got over it. But its so stuck in my head that its never going to leave. Life sucks and I'm almost broken I can never tell it to someone without them getting the wrong idea.


You have issues ... and need therapy.


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post Jul 9 2006, 07:42 AM
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Bah, most people have issues like these and complain in much the same way. Doesn't do any good mind.


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post Jul 9 2006, 07:53 AM
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You have issues ... and need therapy.
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Yes I do have issues, but I don't need therapy. I deal with my feelings(like I got any). My best friend said that I hide my feelings alot and maybe its true but I don't care its my life and I run no one else is going to run my life for me.


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post Jul 9 2006, 08:06 AM
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QUOTE(BloodLust Wolf @ Jul 9 2006, 10:53 AM) [snapback]420024[/snapback]

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You have issues ... and need therapy.


Yes I do have issues, but I don't need therapy. I deal with my feelings(like I got any). My best friend said that I hide my feelings alot and maybe its true but I don't care its my life and I run no one else is going to run my life for me.


well you made this thread and it seemed like a cry for attention. Not as in being an attention whore...just something that's been eating away at you. Therapy might do you some good. It can be as simple as just talking to someone like a friend, writing out your feelings, or spamming internet message boards. It can be more complex where you lay down on a couch while a guy analyzes your dreams. Everything will give you some sort of emotional and psychological relief.

Just know that
1) life is unfair.
2) If you have your health and still have loved ones around you. Then you should be more appreciative of that, than anything else.


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post Jul 9 2006, 08:21 AM
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well you made this thread and it seemed like a cry for attention. Not as in being an attention whore...just something that's been eating away at you. Therapy might do you some good. It can be as simple as just talking to someone like a friend, writing out your feelings, or spamming internet message boards. It can be more complex where you lay down on a couch while a guy analyzes your dreams. Everything will give you some sort of emotional and psychological relief.

Just know that
1) life is unfair.
2) If you have your health and still have loved ones around you. Then you should be more appreciative of that, than anything else.
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Naww it not for attentoin not even close to it. I just need to get it out and throw it away so I can move on and tackle my main goals(Like creating new caracters for my comic).

I hate the fact that most people only care about what happen to them and start mopping around feeling sorry for themself saying "Oh poor me I'm so misunderstood"


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QUOTE(BloodLust Wolf @ Jul 9 2006, 10:53 PM) [snapback]420024[/snapback]

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Yes I do have issues, but I don't need therapy. I deal with my feelings(like I got any). My best friend said that I hide my feelings alot and maybe its true but I don't care its my life and I run no one else is going to run my life for me.

I don't like to say this but I have to, I agree with your friend. You should try to open up your true feelings with your dad as all it takes is just you to talk to him. A "sorry" would be of a much help too although it wasn't entirely your fault. After that, your relationship with him would be restroed, don't you want that? rolleyes.gif I believe no father would hate his own children no matter how cruel he may be, because his love for you is hidden underneath and you need to dig it up. C'mon, he's still your blood-father and you're still his daughter right? Be at least greatful that your dad is still "around", some people don't even have fathers at all.

I do have some problems with my dad till there was once that he and my mom refused to talk to me. I speak up and told him how I feel, and everything is resolved. Yup, and I have to say how greatful I am to have a great father like him and I can go on ranting how great he has been to me.


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QUOTE(MeLRizA @ Jul 9 2006, 11:26 AM) [snapback]420046[/snapback]


I don't like to say this but I have to, I agree with your friend. You should try to open up your true feelings with your dad as all it takes is just you to talk to him. A "sorry" would be of a much help too although it wasn't entirely your fault. After that, your relationship with him would be restroed, don't you want that? rolleyes.gif I believe no father would hate his own children no matter how cruel he may be, because his love for you is hidden underneath and you need to dig it up. C'mon, he's still your blood-father and you're still his daughter right? Be at least greatful that your dad is still "around", some people don't even have fathers at all.

I do have some problems with my dad till there was once that he and my mom refused to talk to me. I speak up and told him how I feel, and everything is resolved. Yup, and I have to say how greatful I am to have a great father like him and I can go on ranting how great he has been to me.


this is assuming a bit too much. we dont' know the circumstances nor the specifics. all i can tell is that there are issues of abandonment, neglect and resentment. But, those are up to BloodLust Wolf to deal with, since she knows her own situation.


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QUOTE(MeLRizA @ Jul 9 2006, 08:26 AM) [snapback]420046[/snapback]
at all[/i].

I do have some problems with my dad till there was once that he and my mom refused to talk to me. I speak up and told him how I feel, and everything is resolved. Yup, and I have to say how greatful I am to have a great father like him and I can go on ranting how great he has been to me.

Well my real father was a kid himself still and my mom had me at sixteen like I said I was to young to remember and thank god but I'm angry becuse everyone Knew exsept me and my two sisters and I'm also mad because they told me. The youngest sister turns out to be the daughter of the man who I thaught was my father. Now me and Lustergirl or being rejected by the man who raised us first.

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QUOTE(MeLRizA @ Jul 9 2006, 08:26 AM) [snapback]420046[/snapback]
at all[/i].

I do have some problems with my dad till there was once that he and my mom refused to talk to me. I speak up and told him how I feel, and everything is resolved. Yup, and I have to say how greatful I am to have a great father like him and I can go on ranting how great he has been to me.

Well my real father was a kid himself still and my mom had me at sixteen like I said I was to young to remember and thank god but I'm angry becuse everyone Knew exsept me and my two sisters and I'm also mad because they told me. The youngest sister turns out to be the daughter of the man who I thaught was my father. Now me and Lustergirl or being rejected by the man who raised us first.
but I still love my step father even though it hurts.


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^ Gosh, I'm speechless about your situation. I may as well give up.. I hope something will be done between you, Lustergirl and your dad.. Its great to know you still love your stepdad too.


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