Joined: 8-April 05
Member No.: 11,397
I personally think eye contact is pretty important. That and a nice, genuine-looking smile. Sometimes guys come up and start talking to me, but their eyes are darting everywhere and they just look awkward as hell. It's a real turn-off. If you manage to look comfortable, girls will be more comfortable around you. (The same principles tend to work for job interviews.)
Joined: 5-December 04
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Member No.: 3,284
Gender: Not Telling
Maybe I'm just too inexperienced, but the whole 'game' concept is a little unnerving to me. I'd prefer to be treated like a human being rather than something to be hunted. Straightforwardness is nice, I guess, but that applies to all people in all forms of relationships. But then again, I'm not at a point in my life where I want a relationship, so my opinion is pretty much useless here.
You termed it as "'I'm attracted to you, I'm not attracted to you'" BS." Is that not insecurity?
Again, I don't consider not dealing with someone who doesn't know what he wants to be insecurity. You need to be secure to say "enough of this" and walk away.
Here's something I didn't explain though. I live in California, specifically the bay area. Which has been refered to as a big bowl of fruit and nuts, this is true. The men here are incredibily flakey and wishy washy. I don't know how the men are where you live but here they can be big time wasters. I don't want that anymore, it was fine in my 20's but at my age I don't want to deal with some wishy, washy flake.
Someday you'll understand. But I know right now it's fun.
Joined: 3-August 04
Member No.: 354
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heh, are you tell me to have fun? Me, the un-social sociopath? I hardly mingle with the general population and have problems with society/opposite sex that go deeper than just being "wishy-washy." Or as people I've known called it "impossible standards." So I'm mainly alone and the beings I've love, are few but solid.
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Joined: 19-September 05
From: Oregon, Camas Valley
Member No.: 23,196
Man This room is funny, i beat you people dont even now what your talking about, money game and whatevere else, man just be your self and don't be a tottle dick unless thats how they like it you dumb f***s